haters gonna hate: hug the unworthy
Thursday, August 08, 2013
HATERS GONNA HATE
Would it make you prettier, happier, and better person if you keep bashing people?
Does it make you stronger if you post hate messages on your wall, website or whatever social media you're using?
Would it solve the issue if you keep hating the world?
Does it make you stronger if you post hate messages on your wall, website or whatever social media you're using?
Would it solve the issue if you keep hating the world?
With the social networking sites allowing us to express our emotions fully with maybe 60-70 words per minute. One click and we can easily sympathize with complete strangers, "hating whoever everyone else's hating". It's easier for everyone to post hate messages about the government, an actor, music, fashion, a co-worker, or the girlfriend of your crush.
Anyone could be caught on cam, arguing with anybody, cat-fighting, mocking some other people for who knows what. Then the cyber world would start sharing their own opinions over the juicy hot topics making a bad behavior even worse that what it actually was.
Forgive the person for showing an ugly character, forgive the cyber world for bullying the person. And forgive the supposed hero for posting the ugly news online. Then it's gonna be a whole circus of hate, with the social media as the arena. Suddenly, everyone would become a critic. The "freedom of expression" had been abused too much of a time that maybe the kind person in each of us who'd been too long ago buried deep down inside of us, becomes really hard to bring out when needed.
Forgive the person for showing an ugly character, forgive the cyber world for bullying the person. And forgive the supposed hero for posting the ugly news online. Then it's gonna be a whole circus of hate, with the social media as the arena. Suddenly, everyone would become a critic. The "freedom of expression" had been abused too much of a time that maybe the kind person in each of us who'd been too long ago buried deep down inside of us, becomes really hard to bring out when needed.
It's really easy to be negative around these days. It's become a disease that's easily widespread.
The next time you are tempted to post against anyone you hate, think. The next time you totally lose your cool over an awful situation, breathe.
The next time you are tempted to post against anyone you hate, think. The next time you totally lose your cool over an awful situation, breathe.
I am not perfect and for a lot of times, I had hate posts in my social networking sites too. I know it's too late to regret things and I can't always be apologetic for the words I've said, and the things I've done.
CAN'T PLEASE EVERYBODY
As the cliche goes, we can't please everybody.
I am not the type who will be all smiles and eager to gain friends, shaking hands with everyone or be a friend of a friend. I am not vying to be crowned Little Miss Popular. I am oftentimes regarded as a snob. I just don't smile that often, I have such strong facial features with jet black hair and eye brows that make me look so stiff and anti-social. I am not the type that you'll like or fall in love at first meeting.
Any amount of makeup or superficial fancy clothes will by any means make you kinder than you really are. Well, in the facade maybe, let's say you can fool everybody. If only we spend the amount of time we do with preparing ourselves to impress people we don't even like, with things worthwhile like thinking of the next kind word to say or loving act to do; maybe, just maybe, it will be a better place to live in.
Gone are the days that people dress to express individuality. Everyday has become a catwalk of ego-feeding shallow brains. The social media had become all the more a venue of our hyperbolic alter-ego.
What a depressing slap in the face!
THE GOOD ALWAYS WINS.
We have unknowingly equated that haters are nothing but people with a serious insecurity problem. And that if we are subjects of scrutiny or hate, we automatically become a very important person.
What a sad way to put things in perspective. Most often than not, we get too caught up with our egotistic belief; we have put into our minds full of sh*t that we can just step upon people to get by our pedestal. Oh please, for once, let's get down from our megalomaniac heavens!
We have overestimated ourselves far too much, that it never crossed our minds that people could hate us just because there's nothing to love, and that they are not insecure "friends" who love to rant.
Not everyone give a f*c* of our lives. Having haters is not something to be proud of. It is a wake up call to check up on our thickest faces and really open up our eyes to whatever flaw we have that we can't accept.
It may be cool to be bad; but it's way cooler to be kind. Plus, we get to be lifted off with heavy baggage of insecurity and hate we ourselves have that we have unconsciously displaced to our "haters".
We are not that great. People may hate us, but as soon as we're gone; we're not impossible to forget.
Peace out. Spread the love.
Any amount of makeup or superficial fancy clothes will by any means make you kinder than you really are. Well, in the facade maybe, let's say you can fool everybody. If only we spend the amount of time we do with preparing ourselves to impress people we don't even like, with things worthwhile like thinking of the next kind word to say or loving act to do; maybe, just maybe, it will be a better place to live in.
Gone are the days that people dress to express individuality. Everyday has become a catwalk of ego-feeding shallow brains. The social media had become all the more a venue of our hyperbolic alter-ego.
What a depressing slap in the face!
THE GOOD ALWAYS WINS.
We have unknowingly equated that haters are nothing but people with a serious insecurity problem. And that if we are subjects of scrutiny or hate, we automatically become a very important person.
What a sad way to put things in perspective. Most often than not, we get too caught up with our egotistic belief; we have put into our minds full of sh*t that we can just step upon people to get by our pedestal. Oh please, for once, let's get down from our megalomaniac heavens!
We have overestimated ourselves far too much, that it never crossed our minds that people could hate us just because there's nothing to love, and that they are not insecure "friends" who love to rant.
Not everyone give a f*c* of our lives. Having haters is not something to be proud of. It is a wake up call to check up on our thickest faces and really open up our eyes to whatever flaw we have that we can't accept.
It may be cool to be bad; but it's way cooler to be kind. Plus, we get to be lifted off with heavy baggage of insecurity and hate we ourselves have that we have unconsciously displaced to our "haters".
We are not that great. People may hate us, but as soon as we're gone; we're not impossible to forget.
Peace out. Spread the love.
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