I grew up with the belief that Prince Charming would do come in the right place and time, he would rescue me, damsel in distress, and we’ll live happily ever after. As a child, I’ve already had dreams of love stories like those of Rapunzel, Ariel, Snow White and Cinderella. I wished my knight in shining armor would show up from faraway land. I grew up believing in romance and true and pure love and love that lasts forever.
So, I've heard this lot of times "If you have a time machine, what moment in your life will you go back to?" And of course, I'd let it out in a scream: HIGH SCHOOL!!!!
Why high school?
Coz high school was way fun! :)
What do you write when you have nothing to write? Hahaha, Write something about it, write your theories why it seems like you can’t put your mind on the right track and you can’t have a clean topic to start with. Write how from being so ecstatic to write a blog, you end up being point blank. That sounds so good to me.
So I started the week with full enthusiasm of how I got to create this blog from scratch, with a little help from my friend John C and envy of my sister’s blog. I had to copy-paste some of my most liked notes from facebook and all my other social networking sites. So, it doesn’t come as a surprise that I now have my own blog, because I’ve been writing for a very long time.
Coz it's a busy day at work...
I missed my boyfriend...
I've been charged 220php for a patient's ecg...
I bumped my head while sleeping in the jeep on my way home...
I blogged...
I checked my facebook...
No messages, no comments to my posts...
No SMS christmas party invites...
I have a boring social life :'(
I feel lazy to go out and party...
I have budget cut on ice cream...
I keep gaining lb's...
My friends forgot about me...
My requested day off has not been granted yet...
Waiting for my 13th month pay and go out of town...
Got screamed at after getting through a busy line...
Obsessed with dress and heels...
I'd like to go to the beach and feel the sand...
Be kissed...
Give free hugs...
Almost disappointed with my delayed BB gift from bro...
Having a dilemma when to resign...
What work to do next...
Wishful thinking to buy me a new car...
I keep disappointing myself...
I expect too much...
People hate me...
I am boring...
Dead be...
No relationship is problem-proof or pain-free and doesn’t come in boxes labeled with no-tears formula or happiness guaranteed or lifetime warranty. (Imagine how life would be so much wonderful and perfect with that.Sweet.) The formula for the perfect scratch-proof relationship hasn’t been invented yet (even fairy tales have tragedies too) but I found these simple things might help promote love and happy relationship.
Stay happy in love.
Here are a few things we can say and do to the people we love.
1. Say I love you only when you mean to say it; and when you do mean to say, tell them you love them, people forget.
2. Appreciate every good thing they’ve done for you; even the smallest things (whether they cooked your fave dish, got you a new pet, colored your nails, or gave you free movie passes). Say thank you.
When sorry isn’t enough, what do you do?
We are just humans (or are you? haha) and not perfect human beings at that. It is quite normal for us to commit mistakes sometimes and hurt people, even those we love. Most of the time we don’t choose the right words to convey our message, while often times we just have the inappropriate tone of voice. We are so secure with our tight bonds with other people that we make assumptions that there’s nothing we can do to them that isn’t forgivable. Hardly do we realize out of anger, that our loved ones’ hearts and egos have been crushed by our own incontrollable throw of tantrums. And being self-centered in nature, we don’t realize the resulting damages to others, we think we are always right and that that their acts of avoidance from us are just results of their over reaction to the situation.